negativity misson?!

this past week was OK.

TheWife and I went to a movie mid week and that was a good time.

i overdrew my account paying for the drinks after, that was not good.

here, is where it blows up:

worked Saturday which wasn't bad at all, and then went to a (now former) friends birthday party.

the party was good for a while, until he and i were jokingly arguing and he called me a cunt. no one laughed.

he claims to have had deep feelings for me for a while, again i always thought the way to get the girl is to flatter her.....
not to humiliate her in a room of strangers, and say it with a smile too!

we stayed too long and he cornered me repeatedly trying to get me to change my mind about why i won't date him. i tried to tell him that bringing this up while either of us(he normallywaits until i have a drink in me) have had a drink is not OK! i guess he took that as his cue to continually put his hhands onn me evenn after i told him 1,000 times to stop.

the next night i went over to TheWife's and we watched In the Land of Women and one of the scenes ripped my heart out and i couldn't hold it in and started to cry uncontrollably.

anytime someone tried to ask me if i was OK I'd fall apart again, so i left the room for a while and just sat in her room, she came in later and wiped my face off and told me to let go.

so i did. i wrote him last night, and sent him a txt. he wrote back, no apology at all. just blaming his drinking, and saying he understands that i need time and that i can call him when I'm ready. wtf?!